Dating and Relationships In Security Secrets to Secure Your Heart
Self-discovery is ongoing. I therefore have determined to be a lifelong learner and endure the humbling moments so as to ensure and enjoy a better life thereafter.
That usually is not a bad thing, especially when the girl has already expressed an interest in you. Yet what transpired the days following was nothing less than disastrous.
I would play ball day and night until the sun went down. Then I would go to bed with my ball glove beside my pillow.
I would sit and wait outside of my economics professor's office after class to ask additional questions.
However if you approach a dog calmly, he will most likely remain seated and let you pet him.
The little chick cannot survive outside the egg until it has fully grown and is ready to come out itself. Any premature attempt to get the little chick out will prove fatal. Such was my relational maneuver.
I learned the importance of personal security, being centered in myself and the necessity of timing in regard to relationships. Today I am involved with a wonderful woman who I plan to marry who is perfectly suitable for me and my career.
Failure is never final. It is only feedback. Like me you too can fail forward and come out smelling like roses!
Security means you are not in a hurry.2. Love is patient.
3. Let patience have its perfect work and don't judge, speak or act prematurely.4.
Intimacy can never occur where insecurity is leading the way.5. Acknowledge and face your fears rather than punishing others because of them.6.
Don't put unrealistic expectations on people to meet your unmet needs.7. Establish proper boundaries professionally and relationally for your own personal good and security.8. Before you turn a molehill into a mountain, do some soul searching to find the unmeet need you are seeking to resolve.
9. When you find yourself regressing rather than progressing, look for self-sabotaging fears and beliefs fueling your behavior. Perfect love casts out fear. You cannot be both fearful and loving at the same time.10.
Patiently examine your thoughts, emotions, moods, interactions and reactions to people and circumstances. In so doing you will discover a lot about yourself.11. Security is found when you seek not your own, but the good of others.12. When you give love, you get love.
Don't seek to make a withdrawal before you have made a deposit..Paul Davis is author of Breakthrough for a Broken Heart a book telling us "How to overcome disappointments and blossom into your dreams!" He is a minister, life coach (relational & professional), dating expert, popular worldwide keynote speaker, creative consultant, humor being, adventurer, explorer, mediator, liberator and dream-maker.Paul's compassion for people & passion to travel has taken him to over 50 countries of the world where he has had a tremendous impact. Paul has also brought revival to many in war-torn, impoverished and tsunami stricken regions of the earth.
His nonprofit organization Dream-Maker Ministries is building dreams and breaking limitations.Paul's Breakthrough Seminars inspire, revive, awaken, impregnate with purpose, impart the fire of desire, catapult people into a new level of self-awareness, facilitate destiny discovery and dream fulfillment.Paul can be contacted at: RevivingNations@yahoo.com 407-967-7553 or 407-282-1745.For additional info: http://www.CreativeCommunications.
By: Paul Davis
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